The Four Candles

“You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt loses its flavor, how shall it be seasoned? It is then good for nothing but to be thrown out and trampled underfoot by men. You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” Matthew 5:13-16 (NKJV)

I came across this story and was grieved for the sheer truth of it. Our modern-day church has become so ineffective at changing our culture as to become almost worthless. The Apostle Paul and early church disciples would not recognize much of what we do today. We have knowledge, but no power. We have grace, but no wisdom. We have love, but no fear of the Lord. The church has predominately lost its ability to be “salt and light” in a world that desperately needs both. We may understand who we are in Christ, but we do not understand who Christ is in us. We are not walking in the power and authority that was bought and paid for on the cross. It is no wonder the world finds us so irrelevant. We have become a “churchified” version of themselves.

The Four Candles

A few nights ago a peculiar thing happened. An electrical storm caused a blackout in our neighbourhood. When the lights went out, I felt my way through the darkness into the storage closet where we keep the candles for nights like this. Through the glow of a lit match I looked up on the shelf where the candles were stored. There they were, already positioned in their stands, melted to various degrees by previous missions. I took my match and lit four of them.

How they illuminated the storage room! What had been a veil of blackness suddenly radiated with soft, golden light! I could see the freezer I had just bumped with my knee. And I could see my tools that needed to be straightened.

“How great it is to have light!” I said out loud, and then spoke to the candles. “If you do such a good job here in the storage closet, just wait till I get you out of where you’re really needed! I’ll put one of you on my table so we can eat. I’ll put one of you on my desk so I can read. I’ll give one of you to Judith so that she can cross-stitch.  And I’ll set you”, as I took down the largest one, “ in the living room where you can light up the whole room.” (I felt a bit foolish talking to candles – but what else do you do when the lights go out?)

I was turning to leave with the largest candle in my hand when I heard a voice, “ Now, hold it right there.”

I stopped. Somebody’s in here! I thought. Then I relaxed. It must be Judith, teasing me for talking to the candles.

“OK, honey, cut the kidding,” I said into the semi-darkness. No answer. . .  Hmmm, maybe it was the wind. I took another step. “Hold it, I said!”  There was that voice again.  My hands began to sweat.

“Who said that?” I asked.

“I did.” Said a voice near my hand.

“Who are you? What are you?” I said.

“I’m a candle.” I looked at the candle I was holding. It was burning a strong, golden flame. It was red and sat on a heavy wooden candle holder that had a firm handle.

I looked around once more to see if the voice could be coming from another source. “There’s no one here but you, me, and the rest of the candles,” the voice informed me.

I lifted up the candle to take a closer look. You won’t believe what I saw. There was a tiny face in the wax. (I told you that you wouldn’t believe me.) Not just a wax face that someone had carved, but a moving, functioning, fleshlike face full of expression and life. “Don’t take me out of here!” The candle said.

“What?”

“I said, don’t take me out of this room,” The candle repeated.

“What do you mean? I have to take you out of here. You are a candle. Your job is to give light. It’s dark out there. People are stubbing their toes and walking into walls. You have to come out and light up the place!”

“But you can’t take me out. I’m not ready,” the candle explained with pleading eyes. “I need more preparation.”

I couldn’t believe my ears. “More preparation?”

“Yeah, I’ve decided I need to research this job of light-giving so I won’t go out and make a bunch of mistakes. You’d be surprised how distorted the glow of an untrained candle can be. So I’m doing some studying. I just finished a book on wind resistance. I’m in the middle of a great series of tapes on wick build-up and conservation and I’m reading the new best seller on flame display. Have you heard of it?”

“No,” I answered.

“You might like it. It’s called Waxing Eloquently”.

“That really sounds inter. . .“ I caught myself. What was I doing? I’m in here conversing with a candle while my wife and daughters are out there in the darkness!

“All right then,” I said. “You’re not the only candle on the shelf. I’ll blow you out and take the others!”

But just as I got my cheeks full of air, I heard other voices.

“We’re not going either!”

It was a conspiracy. I turned around and looked at the three other candles; each with flames dancing above a miniature face. I was beyond feeling awkward about talking to candles. I was getting miffed.

“You are candles and your job is to light dark places!”

“Well, that may be what you think,” said the candle on the far left, a long thin fellow with a goatee and British accent. “You may think we have to go, but I’m busy.”

“Busy?”

“Yes, I’m meditating.”

“What? A candle that meditates?”

“Yes. I’m meditating on the importance of light. It’s really enlightening.”

I decided to reason with them. “Listen, I appreciate what you guys are doing. I’m all for meditation time. And everyone needs to study and research, but for goodness’ sake, you guys have been here for weeks! Haven’t you had enough time to get your wick on straight?”

“And you other two,” I asked, “are you going to stay in here as well?” A short, fat, purple candle with plump cheeks that reminded me of Santa Claus spoke up. “I’m waiting to get my life together. I’m not stable enough. I lose my temper easily. I guess you could say that I’m a hot head.”

The last candle had a female voice, very pleasant to the ear. “I’d like to help,” she explained, “but lighting the darkness is not my gift.” All this was sounding too familiar.

“Not your gift?” What do you mean?”

“Well, I’m a singer. I sing to other candles to encourage them to burn more brightly.” Without asking my permission, she began a rendition of “This Little Light of Mine.” (I have to admit, she had a good voice.) The other three joined in, filling the storage room with singing.

“Hey,” I shouted above the music, “I don’t mind if you sing while you work! In fact, we could use a little music out there!”

They didn’t hear me. They were singing too loudly. I yelled louder. “Come on, you guys. There’s plenty of time for this later. We’ve got a crisis on our hands.”

They wouldn’t stop. I put the big candle on the shelf and took a step back and considered the absurdity of it all. Four perfectly healthy candles singing to each other about light but refusing to come out of the closet. I had all I could take. One by one I blew them out. They kept singing to the end. The last one to flicker was the female. I snuffed her out right in the “puff” part of “Won’t let Satan puff me out.”

I stuck my hands in my pockets and walked back out into the darkness. I bumped my knee on the same freezer. Then I bumped into my wife. “Where are the candles?” she asked.

“They don’t….they won’t work. Where did you get those candles anyway?”

“Oh, they’re church candles. Remember the church that closed down across town? I got them there.”

I immediately understood.

Author Unknown

Edited by Susan E. Johnson

“Arise, shine; for your light has come! And the glory of the LORD is risen upon you. For behold, the darkness shall cover the earth, and deep darkness the people; but the LORD will arise over you, and His glory will be seen upon you. The Gentiles shall come to your light, and kings to the brightness of your rising.”  Isaiah 60:1-3 (NKJV)

Copyright © 2011 by Susan E. Johnson
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We Live, We Dance

“‘I will put My Spirit in you, and you shall live, and I will place you in your own land. Then you shall know that I, the LORD, have spoken it and performed it,” says the LORD.’” Ezekiel 37:14 (NKJV)

I came across these lyrics on a friend’s Facebook page just recently. It is my sincere hope that he does not mind my repeating them here.  They are timely, and relevant, to what God has been speaking to me of late. Dreams that have long been dormant, have begun to awaken. Fears that have long dogged my every step, are starting to recede. My heart is beginning to dance to “the rhythm of the heartbeat of heaven.”  I live, I dance.

We Live 

Inside of every heart that beats we are all the same.
There’s a reason though within us all that still remains.
For the freedom lies in the living,
that’s the moments that we’ll offer at your feet,
looking past the shadows, moving toward the hands of peace.

We live, so why do we run and hide?
We dance through life’s choices and chances.
We stand in the altar of the One who loves us all.
We live, but we have abandoned fear.
We dance through all that holds us here.
We stand in the altar of the One who loves us all.

Inside of every life there is a dreamer and a dream.
Each vision he carries is his sacred offering.
They don’t travel, broken and wounded
by the journey that they’ve had to travel on;
the dream will be forsaken and placed into the hands of God.

We live, so why do we run and hide?
We dance through life’s choices and chances.
We kneel at the altar of the One who heals us all.
We live, but we have abandoned fear.
We dance through all that holds us here.
We stand in the altar of the One who loves us all.
We live….

Sometimes there’s laughter, sometimes tears,
sometimes silence so we can hear,
for the rhythm of the heartbeat of heaven,
is the witness to us all that we live.
We dance….

We live, but we will not run and hide.
We dance through life’s choices and chances.
We’ll kneel at the altar of the One who heals us all.
We live, but we have abandoned fear.
We dance through all that holds us here.
We stand in the altar of the One who saves us all.
We live….

We laugh with each other, we cry with each other,
we live, we live, we live….
We hurt with each other, we hold to each other,
we live, we live, we live….

By Jonathon Pierce; ”We Live“ from the album “Sanctuary”–2000

“Again I will build you, and you shall be rebuilt, O virgin of Israel! You shall again be adorned with your tambourines, and shall go forth in the dances of those who rejoice.” Jeremiah 31:4 (NKJV)

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Change Theory

“For I am the LORD, I do not change.” Malachi 2:6a (NKJV)

In 1947, Kurt Lewin developed a concept that he termed “Change Theory”.  This consisted of three steps: Unfreeze (getting ready to change), Change (a transitional step where you have decided that change is necessary; often complicated by coming to the precipice of the change decision and then becoming afraid), and Refreeze (establishing stability after the change has been made–likened to regaining your equilibrium). This theory has been adapted in many ways over the years as it has been applied to various scientific and social disciplines.

Most of us don’t like change. When we are faced with change in our lives, we pretty much grit our teeth and “hang on for dear life”. I was really no different in my younger years. I grew up in the same city, in the same house, until I went off to college.  I would have been happy to stay there, as I was socially reticent and not too sure about living in a dorm away from home with all kinds of girls I had never met.  My parents knew, however, something that I did not: I really needed to go away to college. I needed a little push out of the “nest.”

Real change began after graduating from college. I started a new job, got married, and moved halfway across the country. And it didn’t stop there. We proceeded to move a total of twenty-eight times in the next thirty-two years. We never managed to make small moves either. We usually moved from one coast to the other as time in the U.S. Navy and a series of job related moves for my husband, necessitated that I become really proficient at change. I can’t tell you how many people have told me over the years: “I could never do that.”

When I was much younger, I would have agreed with them.  Sometimes it is a blessing that God does not give us all the details of what He has planned for us. I am not sure I would have had the courage to contemplate, much less do, what my life has since required of me. The constant change inherent in all of those moves, turned me into a different person, and believe me, I needed it. I could easily have become rigid in my thinking, beliefs, and lifestyle had I stayed in one place with the same people all of these years. With each successful move and transition, I have learned what God has been trying to teach me: He always gives me everything that is necessary to complete what He has asked me to do and He never leaves me alone to accomplish anything without His help. I have found that all of those changes have actually been very good for me.

Most people don’t like unexpected change because they don’t like that sense of losing control over their lives. Not knowing where you are going, or how you are going to get there, requires a certain level of faith and trust, not only in God, but also in yourself and your ability to adapt–something that doesn’t always come easily.  And, to be honest, the process of change generally involves hard work. Change is always uncomfortable, at least to some degree. There are those who are never willing to move beyond their comfort zone and take the next step when God shows it to them.  Some can only see the risks involved in that change. They may not be willing, or able, to look beyond that risk to the reward.

So how do we handle it when God asks us to make a change in our lives? Do we quickly move towards obedience? Do we run away and hide because the thought of this change terrifies us? Do we procrastinate, hoping that this change will magically happen by itself,  so that we can side-step the effort required? Do we change, but bellyache and gripe all the way through it? Or do we look at change as an adventure?

I am reminded of that Steve Green song from a number of years ago named, “The Plan:”

“I don’t need to have the plan in hand, I don’t need to have the end in sight, All I need to do is follow you, wherever you lead and do what you ask me to.

Trusting you, Lord, with all my heart, following you all my days; whether I can or can’t understand, I’ll acknowledge you in all my ways.

I don’t need to have the plan in hand, I don’t need to have the end in sight, All I need to do is follow you, wherever you lead and do what you ask me to.

Though I am pressed on every side I am not in despair. My faith in you will carry me through though I may not see where You’re leading me.

I don’t need to have the plan in hand, I don’t need to have the end in sight, All I need to do is follow you, wherever you lead and do what you ask me to.

In order for us to fulfill the call that God has placed on our lives, we must change. In fact, God expects us to change.  And for that we should be grateful.  I don’t know about anyone else, but I am so glad that I am not the same person I was thirty years ago. I am learning that my security and confidence comes from the fact that God never changes, even when my life is in constant flux.  His Presence and His Word are my port in the storms of life. I can have confidence because His Word is always rock solid, His Grace is always sufficient, His Love will always carry me through, and His Holy Spirit will always guide me. I don’t have to face change on my own–ever! He is there every step of the way, and that gives me the “peace that passes all understanding” (Philippians 4:7).

But, God gives me even more than that (as if that weren’t enough). He also gives me others to come along side to help, support, encourage, strengthen, and to pick me up when I fall flat on my face.  I know that my life was never meant to be a solitary journey. I need others to keep me from becoming too self-absorbed, too self-centered, and too self-indulgent. I need others to help me develop those gifts of service that God deems so valuable.

Of course, the need for me to embrace change will never end. I will never really “arrive” at any point in my life. Change is a constant in the universe, and it is a constant in my life, as well. I should, in fact, call the process of change what it really is: an opportunity for growth.  What a blessing that is, because we all know what happens when you stop growing. . .

Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.” Hebrews 13:8 (NKJV)

“Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Isaiah 41:10 (ESV)

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More Precious Than Rubies

Proverbs 3 (NKJV)

 My son, do not forget my law,

    But let your heart keep my commands;
      For length of days and long life
      And peace they will add to you. 
      Let not mercy and truth forsake you;
      Bind them around your neck,
      Write them on the tablet of your heart, 
      And so find favor and high esteem
      In the sight of God and man. 
      Trust in the LORD with all your heart,
      And lean not on your own understanding; 
      In all your ways acknowledge Him,
      And He shall direct your paths. 
      Do not be wise in your own eyes;
      Fear the LORD and depart from evil. 
      It will be health to your flesh,
      And strength to your bones. 
      Honor the LORD with your possessions,
      And with the firstfruits of all your increase; 
      So your barns will be filled with plenty,
      And your vats will overflow with new wine. 
      My son, do not despise the chastening of the LORD,
      Nor detest His correction; 
      For whom the LORD loves He corrects,
      Just as a father the son in whom he delights. 
      Happy is the man who finds wisdom,
      And the man who gains understanding; 
      For her proceeds are better than the profits of silver,
      And her gain than fine gold. 
      She is more precious than rubies,
      And all the things you may desire cannot compare with her. 
      Length of days is in her right hand,
      In her left hand riches and honor. 
      Her ways are ways of pleasantness,
      And all her paths are peace. 
      She is a tree of life to those who take hold of her,
      And happy are all who retain her. 
      The LORD by wisdom founded the earth;
      By understanding He established the heavens; 
      By His knowledge the depths were broken up,
      And clouds drop down the dew. 
      My son, let them not depart from your eyes—
      Keep sound wisdom and discretion; 
      So they will be life to your soul
      And grace to your neck. 
      Then you will walk safely in your way,
      And your foot will not stumble. 
      When you lie down, you will not be afraid;
      Yes, you will lie down and your sleep will be sweet. 
      Do not be afraid of sudden terror,
      Nor of trouble from the wicked when it comes; 
      For the LORD will be your confidence,
      And will keep your foot from being caught. 
      Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due,
      When it is in the power of your hand to do so.
      Do not say to your neighbor,

      “Go, and come back,
      And tomorrow I will give it,
      When you have it with you. 
      Do not devise evil against your neighbor,
      For he dwells by you for safety’s sake. 
      Do not strive with a man without cause,
      If he has done you no harm. 
      Do not envy the oppressor,
      And choose none of his ways; 
      For the perverse person is an abomination to the LORD,
      But His secret counsel is with the upright. 
      The curse of the LORD is on the house of the wicked,
      But He blesses the home of the just. 
      Surely He scorns the scornful,
      But gives grace to the humble. 
      The wise shall inherit glory,
      But shame shall be the legacy of fools.

The Love Of The Game

There is too much of sighing, and weaving
Of pitiful tales of despair.
There is too much of wailing and grieving,
And too much of railing at care.
There is far too much glorification
Of money and pleasure and fame;
But I sing the joy of my station,
And I sing the love of my game.

There is too much of tremble-lip telling
Of hurts that have come with the fight.
There is too much of pitiful dwelling
On plans that have failed to go right.
There is too much of envious pining
For luxuries other may claim.
Too much thought of wining and dining.
But I sing the love of my game.

There is too much of grim magnifying
The troubles that come with the day,
There is too much indifferent trying
To travel a care-beset way.
Too much do men think of gold-getting,
Too much have they underwrit shame,
Which accounts for the frowning and fretting,
But I sing the joy of my game.

Let’s get back to the work we are doing;
Let us reckon its joys and its pain;
Let us pause while our tasks we’re reviewing,
To sum up the cost of each gain.
Let us give up our whining and wailing
Because of the bruises that maim,
And battle the chances of failing
As being part of the game.

Let us care more for serving than winning,
Let us look at our woes as they are;
It is time now that we were beginning
To be less afraid of a scar.
Let us cease in our glorification
Of money and pleasure and fame,
And find, whatsoe’r be our station,
Our joy in the love of the game.

Edgar Albert Guest from “Just Folks”–1917

“For it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure. Do all things without complaining and disputing, that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world.” Philippians 2:13-15 (NKJV)

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Rig For Silent Running

Indeed, we put bits in horses’ mouths that they may obey us, and we turn their whole body. Look also at ships: although they are so large and are driven by fierce winds, they are turned by a very small rudder wherever the pilot desires. Even so the tongue is a little member and boasts great things. See how great a forest a little fire kindles! And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity. The tongue is so set among our members that it defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and creature of the sea, is tamed and has been tamed by mankind. But no man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our God and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in the similitude of God. Out of the same mouth proceed blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be so.” James 3:3-10 (NKJV)

My husband spent time during the early years of our marriage in the U.S. Navy Submarine Service. The phrase “rig for silent running” had specific meaning to them. Whenever they were in a situation where they needed to remain invisible, they instituted certain procedures so that they would become undetectable. His area of service on the submarine was telecommunications and he went through an extensive background check in order to receive the required Top Secret Security Clearance. He knew how to keep things “secret.” Even to this day, he will not talk about most of what he did and experienced aboard that submarine.

We live in a culture where we are encouraged to “let it all hang out” (to borrow a phrase from my more youthful years). Discretion has pretty much gone by the wayside. You don’t have to go very far to get all the intimate details of people’s lives you don’t even know. The church has its own brand of this. We call it “transparency.” We are encouraged to ”make our lives an open book” at church, ostensibly as a means of accountability. Unfortunately, we are not particularly discerning in how, when, or with whom we do this. I can’t be the only one who has wanted to say: “Thank you for sharing, but I don’t really want to know you that well.”

Within the church, we add an additional element to those who do not wish to disclose: guilt and shame. For women especially, it is inferred that if you are not having frequent sharing sessions with your friends, there is a fundamental flaw in you; obviously you need to be “more transparent.”

Now, I believe in transparency. Transparency with God is essential (it’s not like He doesn’t know anyway); transparency with our spouse is imperative; transparency with those to whom we are spiritually accountable is critical; transparency with all others should be discerned.  It is an unfortunate fact that not everyone can, or should, be trusted with many of the more personal details of our lives.

The ability to keep certain knowledge private is especially important if God has revealed something specific to us.  He may be giving us hope for our future or an insight into someone’s situation so that we can effectively intercede in prayer. His revelations to us may, in fact, be a test of our character. Can we be trusted with this information? Will we wait patiently for God to bring it to fulfillment?

When God speaks, it is easy to believe that certainly He must mean “now.”  But because He isn’t bound by time, He may actually be speaking about something decades in our future. Are we willing and able to keep our own counsel in the intervening time? I recently came across this quote by A. W. Tozer that means a lot to me:

God plants His dream in a person’s heart and then molds the person to fit the dream. Even though the molding process seems to contradict the promise, the day comes when God moves His prepared person into His prepared place. . . and the dream becomes reality.”A. W. Tozer

Spiritual growth is never linear; there are many “zigs and zags” in our journey. We often think we are ready for the next step, while God sees that we are not. He waits as we slowly work our way through the growth process into greater maturity. Each part of that process provides an opportunity for obedience to His Word, as we prove ourselves fit for His service. Just as we would not hand a set of car keys to our five-year-old son or daughter, God will not move us into the place of His purpose until we can handle the requirements; He makes certain that strength of character will support us when we get there. Otherwise, what He means as a blessing could easily become a vehicle for disaster.

“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much.” Luke 16:10 (NIV)

In days past, people better understood the power of their words; they were far more cautious with them. We have since become inordinately careless. We have forgotten that God created the world by His Word and that we are made in His image.  Like His Words, ours (whether written or spoken) are also containers for power: “Death and life are in the power of the tongue” (Proverbs 18:21). We have not rightly discerned the power of our words, and we need to. It is time to learn how to “rig for silent running” when it comes to what we say and how much we disclose to others. Just because something can be said, does not mean that it should be said. When we share experiences from our lives, it should have a definite purpose: to show how the grace of God has strengthened us and carried us through the dark times. Our conversations should bring honor and glory to Him and be an encouragement to others.

The time we spend in God’s Word, in prayer, and in worship refines us and defines us. “For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.” (Hebrews 4:12 NKJV)  It is His Word that separates the good from the garbage. It is by His grace and His power that we prove ourselves trustworthy (faithful servants) with what He reveals to us through His Word and by His Spirit. When we come to the end of our lives, we want to be able to look back and see that we have been faithful to that which He has entrusted to us. We want our words and our actions to have been a legacy of life, not one of death and destruction.

It is sobering that God would give us this kind of responsibility. It is time to pick up that mantle and faithfully execute it. It is time to prove ourselves trustworthy bond servants. It is time to make our words count for something. There is Kingdom business that must be accomplished before Jesus Christ returns for His bride.

The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but those things which are revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law.” Deuteronomy 29:29 (NKJV)

A fool vents all his feelings, but a wise man holds them back.” Proverbs 29:11 (NKJV)

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In A Dry And Thirsty Land

 Psalm 63 (NKJV)

O God, You are my God;
Early will I seek You;
My soul thirsts for You;
My flesh longs for You
In a dry and thirsty land
Where there is no water.
So I have looked for You in the sanctuary,
To see Your power and Your glory.

Because Your lovingkindness is better than life,
My lips shall praise You.
Thus I will bless You while I live;
I will lift up my hands in Your name.
My soul shall be satisfied as with marrow and fatness,
And my mouth shall praise You with joyful lips.

When I remember You on my bed,
I meditate on You in the night watches.
Because You have been my help,
Therefore in the shadow of Your wings I will rejoice.
My soul follows close behind You;
Your right hand upholds me.

But those who seek my life, to destroy it,
Shall go into the lower parts of the earth.
They shall fall by the sword;
They shall be a portion for jackals.

But the king shall rejoice in God;
Everyone who swears by Him shall glory;
But the mouth of those who speak lies shall be stopped.

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The Brick

A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between the parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something.

As his car passed, no children appeared. Instead, a brick smashed into the Jag’s side door! He slammed on the brakes and backed the Jag back to the spot where the brick had been thrown.

The angry driver then jumped out of the car, grabbed the nearest kid, and pushed him up against a parked car shouting,

“Just what the heck are you doing? That’s a new car and that brick you just threw is going to cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?”

The young boy was apologetic. ”Please, mister. . . please, I’m sorry but I didn’t know what else to do,” he pleaded. “I threw the brick because no one else would stop.” With tears dripping down his face and off his chin, the youth pointed to a spot just beyond a parked car. “It’s my brother,” he said.  ”He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can’t lift him up.”

Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive, “Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He’s hurt and he’s too heavy for me.”

Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out a linen handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes and cuts. A quick look told him the boy was going to be okay.

“Thank you and may God bless you,” the grateful child told the stranger. Too shook up for words, the man simply watched the boy push his wheelchair-bound brother down the sidewalk toward their home.

It was a slow walk back to the Jaguar. The damage to his car was very noticeable, but the driver never bothered to repair that dented side door. He kept the dent there to remind him of this message: Don’t go through life so fast that God has to throw a brick at you to get your attention!

God whispers to our souls and speaks to our hearts. Sometimes when we don’t take the time to listen, He needs to throw a “brick” at us. It is our choice to listen.

Or not. . .

Author Unknown

Edited by Susan E. Johnson

“Oh, that My people would listen to Me, that Israel would walk in My ways!”  Psalm 81:13 (NKJV)

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Clearly, I Just Don’t Get It

For some reason, I am going to do something today that I have never done before: write a post that is totally unrelated to the general theme of my blog, and post twice in one day. I have had multiple conversations in the past with my daughter about Facebook, and more specifically about Facebook etiquette.  My daughter signed me up for Facebook almost three years ago when she went to college as a way for me to keep up with what she was doing there.  For probably a good two years, I never did anything more with it than look at my ”news feed” to see what she was up to.  She had to explain to me the difference between the “news feed” and my “wall” because I just wasn’t getting the difference. I rarely posted anything myself and occasionally clicked a “like” button or two.  Then a little more than a year ago, I lost a bit of my reserve/fear and began to tentatively do a bit more.

It wasn’t long until my daughter had to have “talk” with me about the fact that I didn’t have to “like” everything she said or posted.  I told her something to the effect: “Of course I like everything you do–you are my daughter and I love you.”  She proceeded to educate me on some of the unwritten ”rules and etiquette” of Facebook.

Now, of course, I was aware of some of those rules. I have heard in the news about nurses who put details of their patients and even some surgeries up on their Facebook page. I remember being horrified that anyone would break patient confidentiality with such foolish disregard.  I did know that anything you put up on Facebook could be seen by all of your “friends” and others, depending on your privacy settings.

Not too long ago I became “friends” with the mother of one of the young dancers my daughter has mentored. This woman had been good to Hannah, and I liked what I saw of her sense of humor.  After about a month or two, I began seeing posts about how unhappy she was with her job, and her boss in particular. After one vitriolic rant about her boss, I shuddered and wondered just how long she would hold that job. Sure enough, about a week later, she posted that she had been fired.  You see, even I know that employers are checking out their employees’ Facebook pages.  I quickly “unfriended” her thinking I just wasn’t sure I needed a “friend” who was that undiscerning.

During a recent conversation about Facebook, the subject of “Facebook stalking” came up. We have had several conversations about this topic in the past, and each time my daughter has tried to explain it to me, I have had to admit that, “I just don’t get it.” You see, as she explained it, Facebook “stalking” means checking out your “friend’s” wall, information, photos, interests, etc.  So. . . correct me if I am wrong, but isn’t that why we put all that stuff up there in the first place?  Don’t we want our “friends” to see it; don’t we want them to know those things about us?

I have had to shake my head, time and time again, as I am continually bemused by the concept that all that information is up there for no one to see. So, I have decided to post a cryptic translation of the Facebook “dialect” that I speak, should anyone be interested or confused.

For the record:

If you are my “friend” on Facebook, it is because I genuinely like you or like what you do/stand for.  I only have 58 “friends”.  I have chosen them very carefully. If I look at your wall, information, or photos, it is because I care enough about you to be interested.  I am not “stalking” you.  I am showing you that somehow you are important to me.

If I click the “like” button on your comment or your post, I really do like it. It means you have said something I agree with; something that has made me smile, laugh, think, brought me enjoyment, or I have just wanted to encourage you.

If I comment on something you have posted, it means that I agree with you; you made me smile, laugh, think, or I wanted to encourage you.

Generally, I see most of what comes up on my “news feed” because I have so few “friends” (as opposed to my daughter who has 550+). Many of my “friends” are family members who rarely post anything on Facebook. So if you post something, I am likely to see it–I didn’t go looking for it.

If you care enough to look at my wall, information, profile, or photos, I promise that I won’t think you are “stalking” me. I just might wonder as to why you don’t have a better way to spend your time though. I am actually quite boring when it comes right down to it.

If you “like” or comment on something I have posted, I really appreciate it. It means to me that somehow you cared enough to take some of your valuable time to let me know that you appreciated what I put on Facebook.

I have actually come to enjoy Facebook. I believe that what I post tells others about what is important to me and I believe that what others post, tells me the same about them. Facebook gives me another way to get to know and understand those people in my life that I care about; and for that I am grateful.

That is my story and I am sticking to it . . .

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We Shall Reap In Joy

Psalm 126 (NKJV)

When the LORD brought back the captivity of Zion,
We were like those who dream.
Then our mouth was filled with laughter,
And our tongue with singing.
Then they said among the nations,
“The LORD has done great things for them.”
The LORD has done great things for us,
And we are glad.

Bring back our captivity, O LORD,
As the streams in the South.

Those who sow in tears
Shall reap in joy.
He who continually goes forth weeping,
Bearing seed for sowing,
Shall doubtless come again with rejoicing,
Bringing his sheaves with him.

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